Four layers, one calm plan
A complete legacy plan used to be described as three layers: a will, a password manager, and a release plan for your digital vault. That's still sound. But it leaves out the layer families often care about most: what you want to say to them.
This checklist covers all four layers, with the personal one first. Education only, not legal advice.
Layer 1: letters and videos (what you want to say)
- A letter to each person you'd want to hear from you
- A short video, recorded in your browser or uploaded from your phone
- Captioned family photos and stories
- A named trustee for each item
- Each trustee told, in person, that something exists for them
In MemoryShield, a letter is plain text plus an optional file, and trustees can download released videos.
Layer 2: your will (legal)
- A will made with a qualified lawyer under your local law
- An executor named
- Guardianship addressed, if you have young children
- Family knows where the will is kept
A will handles legal matters. It doesn't hold or release your letters. See A will does not release your digital vault.
Layer 3: logins (credentials)
- Logins kept in the tool you already use for them, current and up to date
- That tool's own emergency or recovery features, if you want them
- Recovery codes stored safely. See Passkeys and 2FA: planning ahead for your accounts
Don't copy passwords into letters or your legacy vault. They change and go stale. MemoryShield isn't a password manager.
Layer 4: release (how it reaches people)
- Items in your MemoryShield vault, each with a named trustee
- Trustees invited and accepted (naming doesn't unlock anything)
- A backup contact added (notified during verification, no vault access)
- An email life-check on a schedule you can keep, to an inbox you read
Here is what happens if you stop answering your email check-ins. Nothing is released because of one missed email. First there's extended monitoring: more check-ins, more time. Then your backup contact is notified; they can't see your vault. Then there's a waiting period. Only after all of that do your verified trustees receive the items you designated for them. MemoryShield doesn't certify death and has no death-certificate, legal or medical review step. Full walkthrough: How an email life-check and verification work before vault release.
A quiet note on security: your vault is encrypted at rest (AES-256), with escrowed keys so release can work after verification; not zero-knowledge. Item-level encryption is opt-in: you can turn it on for an item, and it's off unless you do. MemoryShield isn't a password manager or a will, and it can't open anyone's other accounts. How security works.
One-page division of labor
| Layer | What it handles | What it doesn't |
|---|---|---|
| Letters and videos | Your words, your face, your stories | Legal matters or logins |
| Will | Property, executor, guardianship | Releasing your letters or vault |
| Login tool | Day-to-day credentials | Personal messages to family |
| MemoryShield vault | Keeping your items and releasing them to named trustees after verification | Accessing third-party accounts, certifying death |
Common gaps this checklist closes
- The letter in the drawer. Written but never found. Layer 1 plus Layer 4 fixes it.
- The will with no words. Legally complete but silent on what you wanted to say.
- Released too soon. A single missed signal shouldn't hand anything over; verification comes first.
- Nobody knows. Tell your trustees and executor that the plan exists.
Minimum setup for this month
- Write one letter.
- Put it in your vault and name a trustee.
- Add a backup contact and turn on your email check-in.
- Book time with a lawyer if your will is missing or out of date.
On roles: Executor vs digital trustee.
Start on the Free plan ($0)
Start with Layer 1. One letter, one trustee and one email check-in make a real first step.
Start on the Free plan ($0). No card required. The Free plan holds up to 5 items and 1 trustee. If you later want more room, Premium is $9.99/mo or $99/yr (up to 200 items and 5 trustees); paid plans have a 30-day trial and need a card or PayPal at checkout.
Security: https://memoryshield.life/security · Plans: https://memoryshield.life/public-pricing · Support: support@memoryshield.life
